Now, I don't want to 'be the brother he remembers' but I want to be his brother.
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But for the first time in a while I have been thinking again if it's better the other way around.
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Now, I don't want to 'be the brother he remembers' but I want to be his brother.
[ . . . ]
But for the first time in a while I have been thinking again if it's better the other way around.